What’s really keeping you from feeling whole and free on a daily basis? And what do you want instead?

These two questions will live at the center of our work together for the next year.

If you’re like most of My People, you’ve already asked the questions, and looked for answers.
You’ve got the value system, you know the words - like intersectional, decolonize, anticapitalism, capacity, and liberation.
You’ve done the therapy and overanalyzed yourself

…and somehow it STILL feels like your life is running you, instead of the other way around.

Welcome, beautiful friend. You’re not broken, I promise. You just haven’t found your answers yet.

Here’s what I know:
The daily practice of self-liberation requires letting go of your old agreements with the rest of the world, so you can forge new ones with yourself.

You’ve spent a lifetime moving through an oppressive world as YOU. If you’re going to undo anything, you first have to start by understanding the relationship you’ve built between oppression and YOURSELF.

All those fancy words - decolonize, anticapitalism, liberation, capacity - are just distant, abstract ideas until you figure out the patterns in your own life that are keeping you from embodying them, and what it looks like for YOU to live them.

So for you to start feeling free,
we’ve got to unearth the sneakiest ways you’ve internalized and integrated painful ideas around worth, value, and yourself - ideas that keep you from trusting your true nature and genuinely living a life aligned with your values, your integrity and your whole self.

These ideas often hide beneath the ways you’ve adapted to navigate a world that was always designed to stifle your liberation.
That might look like perfectionism, code-switching and masking, being overly self-critical, obsessing over self-improvement, compartmentalizing aspects of who you are, shrinking, over-advocating, or forcing yourself to fit molds that ultimately feel like wearing a mask.

You might even be mistaking your coping mechanisms for your personality.

Coaching is a co-creative process that allows me to wander along by your side for a year, helping you gain clarity and insight into what it would actually take to let yourself be who you are, and let go of the rest. You get to reclaim yourself, reject what isn’t yours (and never should have been), and in the process, find the true power of what it means to be yourself.

I’d love to meet the real you, and I hope you’d like to, too.